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  Building and maintaining a thriving relationship requires cultivating effective attachment styles. It's essential to recognize that past negative experiences don't define future relationships. Disappointments are an inevitable part of life, and it's crucial not to let them dictate your approach to new relationships. Attachment styles, shaped by early interactions with caregivers and parents, significantly influence emotional connections, communication, and conflict resolution in adulthood. Understanding your attachment style and that of your partner can help you develop more secure and positive relationship dynamics. By acknowledging the differences in attachment styles and being open to growth and adaptation, individuals can foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This awareness enables partners to navigate challenges more effectively, build trust, and strengthen their bond.. As an individuals you can build stronger, more resilient relationships that bring joy a...

 As promised, I'm excited to share the second practical principle for a thriving marriage , drawn from my almost 40 years of experience in a successful marriage. This principle is the foundation upon which all other aspects of a healthy relationship are built: having a vision . Growing up in a polygamous home, I witnessed firsthand the effects of an abusive marriage . My father's lack of love and care for my mother had a profound impact on our family, and I knew from a young age that I wanted something different for myself and my future family. I made a conscious decision to break free from the cycle of polygamy and create a better life for myself and my loved ones. My vision was clear: I would have a monogamous marriage , provide unconditional love and care for my children, and support them in achieving their educational goals. This vision has been the driving force behind my actions and decisions throughout my marriage . Even when challenges arose and it seemed like giving...

I want you to know that no marriage on earth is hundred percent without friction, foundation is what makes a difference.  Building a strong foundation in Christ is essential for a thriving marriage or relationship . As believers, we are called to anchor our relationships in the unshakeable rock of God's love and wisdom. This foundation is the key to weathering life's storms, fostering a deep and abiding love, and creating a union that honours God.First and foremost, we must recognize that marriage is a sacred institution created by God. In Genesis 2:24 , " therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh". we are reminded that a man and woman become one flesh, united in a bond that reflects Christ's love for the church. This divine design sets the stage for a beautiful and purposeful relationship . As we journey  on, you will see the reason God put this principle in place, the principle of onen...

 Correcting errors and addressing misconceptions is an essential aspect of personal and professional growth. For the church of Christ to stay focus and stand on the part of truth, errors and misconceptions must be addressed.However, the approach used to correct errors can significantly impact the outcome. Criticizing and fault-finding often lead to defensiveness, arguments, and further entrenchment of the error. In contrast, presenting the truth in a clear and respectful manner, alongside the error, exposes the falsehood and fosters a conducive environment for correction and learning. I have discovered that Criticizing and fault-finding can:-  Lead to defensiveness and hurt pride - Create an adversarial atmosphere - Overlook the underlying reasons for the error - Focus on personal attacks rather than the issue - Discourage open communication and feedback On the other hand, presenting the truth beside the error: - Encourages objective evaluation and comparison - Focuses on the ...

 Many people hold their faith close and never realised that they have strain far away from the truth,  it's important to reflect on the essence of one’s beliefs beyond the rituals and traditions. Religion is often worn like a garment, visible for all to see, yet godliness is woven into the fabric of our character, felt rather than flaunted. The discrepancy between religious practices and godly behaviour is significant because when people focus on the semblance of piety without embodying its principles, they become vulnerable to manipulation by those who misuse religion for personal gain .Religious fervour without the substratum of godliness can create a hollow space where fear and respect for the Lord ought to be. This vacancy can lead to a superficiality in faith, allowing for manipulative tendencies under the guise of piety. It's easy to wrap oneself in the cloak of religiosity, performing rituals and speaking the language of devotion, while failing to internalise the spi...

In Luke 1: 37 - 61 it is said " for there is nothing that God cannot do ---  Is there anything that God cannot do? If so, what are the boundaries and limitations and how are they defined? Unfortunately, these are questions that some systematic theologians neglect, avoid, or answer unsatisfactorily.  No matter what God does there will be something which he is unable to do, with my years of walking with Him, I have come to the conclusion that God can't do the following things  1.God is unable to do anything which is logically contradictory. 2. God can't commit suicide, an action which would undermine the very power of the being.  3.God can't change 4.He can't be lonely, either you serve him or not. 5.God can't break his promise 6.God can't be tempted. 7.God can't be surprised. 8.He can't bear to look at evil or practice evil. 9.God can't disown himself  10.God can't lie. 11.God can't be fooled. 12.He can't be given a problem he can...

Embracing the Complexity of Growth and the Pursuit of Success in the vast tapestry of life, the journey towards success is often a complex and challenging one. It is a path filled with triumphs and setbacks, blessings and obstacles, where the simplicity of achieving one's goals is rarely a reality. To truly thrive and succeed, one must recognize that there is no shortcut or easy route to growth. Instead, it is through wholehearted dedication, perseverance, and continuous striving that we unlock our true potential and find fulfillment. In our modern society, we are bombarded with messages promising quick fixes, instant gratification, and overnight success. However, the reality of personal and professional growth is far from simple. It involves embracing the discomfort that comes with pushing beyond our comfort zones, confronting our fears, and working tirelessly towards our aspirations. Just as a seed must struggle and push through layers of soil to reach the surface and bask in the...