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IMPORTANCE OF VISION FOR A THRIVING MARRIAGE

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 As promised, I'm excited to share the second practical principle for a thriving marriage , drawn from my almost 40 years of experience in a successful marriage. This principle is the foundation upon which all other aspects of a healthy relationship are built: having a vision . Growing up in a polygamous home, I witnessed firsthand the effects of an abusive marriage . My father's lack of love and care for my mother had a profound impact on our family, and I knew from a young age that I wanted something different for myself and my future family. I made a conscious decision to break free from the cycle of polygamy and create a better life for myself and my loved ones. My vision was clear: I would have a monogamous marriage , provide unconditional love and care for my children, and support them in achieving their educational goals. This vision has been the driving force behind my actions and decisions throughout my marriage . Even when challenges arose and it seemed like giving...

BUILDING A STRONG FOUNDATION IN CHRIST FOR A THRIVING MARRIAGE/ RELATIONSHIP.

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I want you to know that no marriage on earth is hundred percent without friction, foundation is what makes a difference.  Building a strong foundation in Christ is essential for a thriving marriage or relationship . As believers, we are called to anchor our relationships in the unshakeable rock of God's love and wisdom. This foundation is the key to weathering life's storms, fostering a deep and abiding love, and creating a union that honours God.First and foremost, we must recognize that marriage is a sacred institution created by God. In Genesis 2:24 , " therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh". we are reminded that a man and woman become one flesh, united in a bond that reflects Christ's love for the church. This divine design sets the stage for a beautiful and purposeful relationship . As we journey  on, you will see the reason God put this principle in place, the principle of onen...